Don't Cry to God

Is our life been controlled by some unknown force? all our actions in-actions ,Our speech our silence like a movie that is already been scripted. And we all strongly believe that we can change those script if we try hard, or may be we cry hard. Yeah cry,are you surprised to hear that? why do you think we cry lonely in a room, because we have been fed a misconception along with the breast milk when we were babies , and that is If we cry then we will get. And growing up ,that idea just cemented its positions inside our head. we want a chocolate ,cry to daddy, we want new dress then cry to mommy, As we grew up our needs also grew and no longer mommy or daddy can give us what we want. That's when we started to believe in a higher power . Some one who can give us what we want. Some one who will fall for our tears and will use his power to give us to grand us everything no matter what it is. I am not questioning the place of God in this universe, I am a strong believer , but i don't believe that God is the one we need to fall into when we want something or when things go wrong. It is us whom we need to fall for solace. Because  Its our actions that is going to fetch what we want in life and of course our actions are Gods actions because He is in everyone of us